In this talk I will study the long time behavior of discrete approximations in time and space of the cubic nonlinear Schroedinger equation on the real line. Considering a symplectic time-splitting approximation of discrete nonlinear Schroedinger equations with Dirichlet boundary condition on a large space interval, we can prove that under a CFL condition between the time and space discretization parameters, there exists a numerical solution which is close to the continuous ground state. Then we can prove that if the initial datum is close to the ground state, the associated numerical solution remains close to the orbits of the ground state over a very long time. This is a joint work with Dario Bambusi (Milano) and Benoit Grebert (Nantes)